Stalking Safety Tips For Women

If You Think You Are Being Stalked Safety Tips!
Courtesy of the Seattle Police Department
 
Stalking is defined as the intentional, unlawful and repeated harassment and/or following of a person, which causes that person to be in reasonable fear that he/she may be injured. Stalking may start out with repeated unwanted contacts, including calls, visits, and gifts. Stalking may include harassment, threats, or obscenity – in person, by phone, via the internet, or in writing. Stalking may escalate quickly and without provocation or encouragement by the victim. A small percentage of stalkers follow celebrities or strangers, but the majority of perpetrators stalk someone with whom they have had a past or present relationship. If you think you are being stalked:
 
Stalking is a serious violation of your personal security and safety. It can also spread to your home safety as well. On November 26th a stalker invaded the home of a young mother in San Mateo, California who he had been stalking and ended up killing her and ending his own life.  Luckily she had the ability and courage to hand her small babies out of a bedroom window to safety before her life was ended.
 
If you have a stalking situation going on in your life, be sure to follow the above safety tips and make sure others are well aware. Take a self-defense class to learn how to protect and defend yourself – both physically and verbally. A self-defense class may give a person that extra boost of self-confidence and empowerment that they may be lacking. And it may be that confidence that helps to forcefully tell your stalker to “BACK OFF AND LEAVE YOU ALONE!!"
 
You may want to also invest in non-lethal personal protection; however, if the situation has gone to the very extreme – investing in a lethal weapon may be the next move. If you go to that extreme, be sure to discuss this with at least your spouse, family members, friends, law enforcement, and/or a firearms expert. If you purchase a weapon, be sure to take the firearm’s training so you know how to properly use the weapon. That is a MUST!!
 
Stay mentally alert to your surroundings, maintain your personal safety, and keep home security and safety a priority for both you and your family.
 
Remember, Stay Aware…Stay Alert…Stay Alive!!

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Campus Safety For Women Starts With Taking A RAD Self-Defense Class

Video Courtesy of George Mason University for RAD Self-Defense Class

 

Ladies - Are you looking forward to your 2008-2009 college year as an exciting adventure? Is this your first year of college..or are you a seasoned college veteran?  What a great time to be going to college - learning about new things, meeting new friends, and experiencing one of the greatest times of your life. 

As a concerned parent who had both a son and daughter go through college, my suggestion for young ladies as they start the new school year is to check with your college/university to see if they offer RAD Self-Defense training and sign up.  The class is about 4-weeks long and 2-3 hours one night a week.  You learn about personal safety tactics, common sense awareness and self-defense techniques, and how to defend and protect yourself if  attacked or assaulted.  The more you know about defending yourself the safer you will be. Read more

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Simulation Night For Our RAD Self-Defense Class

Tonight - Tuesday, 3-25-08 - was the last of our RAD Self-Defense class held at the Elkhart County Sheriff’s Department in Elkhart, Indiana.  (Although I was able to videotape some of the ladies in class, I forgot that we are not able to put the videos on youtube or our website).  The last night is known as "simulation".  This is where you have scenario-type situations set up in which you will be attacked by a perpetrator.  The ladies in this class seemed pretty excited about our last night…maybe even a little apprehensive because we were all unsure of exactly what would happen and how we would respond using the self-defense techniques we learned over the last (3) weeks. Read more

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Women’s Self-Defense Verbal Skills- Develop an Assertive Attitude

Shihan Michael Pace

Sometimes women can be too nice to people they don’t know.  Women usually don’t want to be considered rude or loud, so when there’s a confrontation of some sort may tend to demonstrate a passive attitude.  If a perpetrator is confronting you, he may be checking your reactions to see how you respond.  He may be looking for a potential victim who appears weak–not strong.  And he certainly doesn’t want one who is willing to fight him should he attack. Read more

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